life, pain

Hating yourself

Growing up, that is if we grow up with loving supportive parents, they tell us that we are wonderful, that who we are is amazing, and we don't need to change that, and yet every step of the way of our childhood is learning social norms, social rules and social etiquette, pretty much a rule… Continue reading Hating yourself

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What kind of person do you want to be?

Everyone tells you when you become a parent your life changes forever, but until you do it you never really get it, you can't, it's just not possible. I remember when I found out I was pregnant unexpectedly I was half shitting myself half over the moon. I looked down at that blue and white… Continue reading What kind of person do you want to be?

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Honesty

If you asked most people is honesty important to them, unless I'm completely delusional, I assume most people would say yes, they might even go as far to say honesty is one of their top values. Everyone likes to think they are honest, and everyone likes to suggest they want honesty in return from others,… Continue reading Honesty